Monday, September 24, 2012

Mengawan

There has been numerous wedding invitations these days if you notice, must be "mengawan" season. 

Well can't help not to be immersed by such happiness when seeing the bride and the bridegroom walking hand by hand so romantically. These are when the girls will swoon and say "Aaahhh so suwittt laaa. Nak kahwin jugak."


Padahal nak perasan cantik pakai gaun besar je sebenarnya. Ala ala princess gitu.

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Nak sangat meriah, nak amik guna lampu raya

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Like any other girls, I do swoon over pretty dresses, pretty backdrop, perfect atmosphere, etc. And of course the most essential, the "man". It doesn't have to be the perfect guy, enough with the right man to complete the other half of me. Found one hehe *hi baby!*. 

Then there's the happily ever after ending dream. Awwwwww *eyes with full of love*. Gosh, obviously Disney has feed us girls with too much fantasy huh?

But I guess the real deal only begins after marriage. The challenge is to keep the momentum going for the rest of your life, caring and loving the same person until your last breath. The gratitude of being granting an anugerah for life will overpower any obstacles. 

Despite any differences you both have, you'll come together somehow to the common ground - for the love you have for each other. Need to keep that affection and intimacy rolling dude, we're gonna be cruising our lifetime together! *chicken dance yeahh*

Amboi sembang lebih macam gaya dah kahwin. Haha.


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What marriage really is to me, is purely beautiful. 

Dicipta untuknya agar tidak bersendirian. 
Bukan saja untuk hayat disini, InsyaAllah hingga ke syurga sana. 

As potrayed by our beloved Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam;
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‘Aisha raḍyAllāhu ‘anha and the Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam would use code language with each other denoting their love. She asked the Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam how he would describe his love for her. 
The Prophet Muhammad answered, saying: 
“Like a strong binding knot.” The more you tug, the stronger it gets, in other words.
Every so often ‘Aisha would playfully ask,
“How is the knot?” 
The Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam would answer, 
“As strong as the first day (you asked).”
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Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam was sitting in a room with ‘Aisha raḍyAllāhu ‘anha fixing his shoes, ‘Aisha happened to look to his blessed forehead and noticed that there were beads of sweat on it. Mesmerized by the majesty of that sight she remained transfixed staring at him long enough for him to notice.
The Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam said, 
“What’s the matter?” 
She replied, 
“If Abu Bukair Al-Huthali, the poet, saw you, he would know that his poem was written for you.” 
The Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam asked, 
“What did he say?” 
She replied,
“Abu Bukair said that if you looked to the majesty of the moon, it twinkles and lights up the world for everybody to see.”
So the Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam got up, walked to Aisha, kissed her between the eyes, and said,
Wallahi ya Aisha, you are like that to me and more.”
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MashaAllah. 
P/S: Note to future husband -> Bersedialah untuk dimadukan. Bantal golek ialah suamiku juga.